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    What to Do When You Can’t Find Yourself?

    PERSONAL GROWTH

    What does finding yourself even mean? As I was scrolling through Pinterest a few moments ago, I came across an article titled “How to find yourself?” Just reading that title was enough to open a WordPress document and start sharing my opinion on finding yourself. First, what are we hoping to find? Probably a version of ourselves who has certain ambitions in life and is willing to take action towards achieving them. That person is not somewhere out there. That person is not going to pop up in your mind and start screaming ”Hey! I’m here! Let’s live now!...

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    your best life

    Dealing with Negative Comments: How to Protect Your Energy and Stay True to Yourself

    PERSONAL GROWTH•SELF-CONFIDENCE

    Dealing with negative comments is a skill worth mastering. We can come across unnecessary mean comments at work, in dating, family, hobbies, or even just walking down the street, minding our own business. You can’t control what other people say or how they say it. But you can decide whether you want to take what they said as truth and base your following actions on that. Or whether you want to leave them with their thoughts and create your own opinions. Let’s dive into how you can deal with negative comments while staying solid in your identity and not...

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    how to be alone and enjoy it

    How to Be Alone and Enjoy It: 4 Ways to Be Happy by Yourself

    PERSONAL GROWTH•SELF-CONFIDENCE

    How to be alone and enjoy it? Feeling lonely isn’t reserved only for times when you’re alone. You can feel lonely in rooms full of people if you feel like those aren’t your people. We find ourselves constantly looking for company, for some familiar face so that we don’t feel alone. But what’s so bad about being alone? Do we not know how fun and capable we are, and therefore, we rely on others to make us feel good? To make us feel whole and complete? Today, I share action steps and mindset shifts on how to be alone...

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    change your life

    9 Ways to Change Your Life Today

    PERSONAL GROWTH

    Looking for effective ways to change your life? Instead of giving you a list of habits you’ve already thought about, let’s look at how you can change your life from the inside out. So that who you are reflects your desired future. Let’s dive in. 1) Identify what’s holding you back What limiting beliefs and fears are playing on repeat in your mind? What worries and insecurities take over your enthusiasm to go after your dreams? Instead of taking your unhelpful thoughts as facts to carry your entire life, now is the time to write a new story. Take...

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